K.I.S.S = Keep It Simple *Stupid
Life is simple and we should always maintain it that way. Sometimes, we tend to over-think and make things complicated.
Worrying doesn’t help us either. It can’t even solve our problems.
Practice K.I.S.S-ing
I’ve known this phrase for a long time but the latest book where I got this is from Robert Renaud’s Time Trading Guru and gave me an idea on how to make life more simple. Another site that I’d like everyone to know is Think Simple Now. This site has been helpful to me and Tina Su will always be a role model to me. (I have a confession to make, I want to be little Tina Sue in the future.haha)
But kidding aside, this site has a lot of articles that can make your life simpler and get rid of complications.
For me, keeping things simple can be linked to happiness because if we tend to keep things simple as it is, we will just dwell on the more important things in our lives and thus can keep happiness within our reach.
I have come up with some K.I.S.S-ing Principles that could be helpful to everyone.
- If the situation is not making you happy get out of it.
- If they they are not making you happy, get rid of them.
- If you love them, say it.
- The lesser you care, the lesser you get hurt.
- Focus on your dreams
- Don’t let anyone drag you down.
- Avoid Drama
- If its GOOD, DO it, If NOT, DON’t
It will always be easier said than done but, that is what life is supposed to be. We only need the courage to keep it.
The principles are hard to do if the problem is my own family. Hehe.
Thank you Trix.
I can’t give up when I’m only in the early chapters of my life, right? ^u^ Hehe. I’ll really try my very best. Fight on! 
yes of course, there will be a lot more as we grow older.. yeah! that’s right.. fight on
) hope everything will be well for you and your family…
Thank you talaga Trix. You cheered me up. -^u^-
It becomes an interesting walk when you love someone and you wake up one day and realize that they are emotionally abusive and you’ve been a facilitator…and then trying to keep that relationship but set boundaries. I’ve not done that successfully as far as maintaining a close relationship with that person. I have been very successful in taking better care of myself. Best I can do now is to pray for that person’s healing and our relationship to heal. Would be interested in how you may have approached this from experience.
Emotional abuse is one hurtful thing that a man could face. Though you aren’t physically tortured, your inner self is the one being hurt which could be more damaging actually. Not can it only affect your daily life, but can also affect your relationship with others.
If someone had hurt you emotionally, it’s better to talk it off with that person so you can reconcile your differences. Being open with what you feel is so important for them to know what you actually feel. Because some people may not notice that they are hurting you. Nevertheless, you might seek help (professional) if you are deliberately hurt (emotionally) by that person despite extending yourself towards them.
Yes, setting boundaries could help but of course, but, we can also lose that temper and might present further problems in the future. Sometimes, those “hurtful feelings” no matter how small or big it is can bottle up and you can flare up anytime which isn’t a sign of healthy relationship.